tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6679355.post4903653934913161626..comments2023-10-31T09:56:21.108-04:00Comments on Celibate in the City: Single ComplicationsUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6679355.post-80870431562499763522010-06-01T11:22:44.314-04:002010-06-01T11:22:44.314-04:00illwinterfate,
Thank you for sharing your story....illwinterfate, <br /><br />Thank you for sharing your story. I really appreciate it. I'm sorry you had to go through that. It's good to be reminded that the Lord does know better than we do. And the laws are there for a reason. You're right, it is a matter of faith.City JLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03623439260681143355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6679355.post-38278382292013023322010-05-31T02:08:53.117-04:002010-05-31T02:08:53.117-04:00Ok I am coming from a diffrent place but I do apre...Ok I am coming from a diffrent place but I do apreciate every one's comments. I was totally in the same lonely predicment a few years ago. I would go to church because I needed to be there but I found myself getting there later and later before I just stopped. I was tired of the bad feelngs I would leave with and it can be a lonely place. So eventually found myself in a relationship, very redladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07190607657529552989noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6679355.post-49430404919864419822010-05-30T01:52:35.436-04:002010-05-30T01:52:35.436-04:00Thank you for the link Stephen (E), you're rig...Thank you for the link Stephen (E), you're right, they are closely related. It seems the two of us are at different points on the same journey. <br /><br />That's really great iieee, congrats on your marriage. It's good to hear that there are marriages happening out there. <br /><br />Welcome to all my Zelophehad's Daughters visitors!City JLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03623439260681143355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6679355.post-6517397129741603052010-05-29T11:03:56.163-04:002010-05-29T11:03:56.163-04:00This post ant http://zelophehadsdaughters.com/2010...This post ant http://zelophehadsdaughters.com/2010/05/28/struggling-with-sacrifice/ seem to go together.Stephenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00219023897626648057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6679355.post-16113053322712084332010-05-27T19:40:03.874-04:002010-05-27T19:40:03.874-04:00I've only been married almost 8 months now, so...I've only been married almost 8 months now, so my perspective on this may change later, but being single and going to church IS one of the hardest things ever. I completely agree with you on that. Getting to church has never been a problem for me now that I'm married. My husband isn't the type to even consider missing a single meeting. So it's just natural to up and go, and 99% ofBebe McGoochhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14498273486476170108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6679355.post-45162169509555654602010-05-26T19:53:55.489-04:002010-05-26T19:53:55.489-04:00you aren't the "family loser".
And...you aren't the "family loser". <br /><br />And some of us marrieds STILL end up doing everything to manage the house/our lives. And I often find it easier to soothe myself after a bad day via the methods you mentioned -- ice cream, TV, bath -- than to try to explain everything to my husband. <br /><br />And I'm not trying to argue with you here...just a note that marriage does jillmarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03736272749620468365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6679355.post-10126763225450726462010-05-26T19:17:53.786-04:002010-05-26T19:17:53.786-04:00You know, I usually feel like an incompetent human...You know, I usually feel like an incompetent human being who can't manage my own life, because I don't get the oil changed on time or all the dishes washed everyday or all the bills paid on time, or my lawsuit defense papers filed, or make doctor appointments, etc. I forgot that most people don't have to do everything by themselves. Thanks for reminding me.<br /><br />My parents arenCity JLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03623439260681143355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6679355.post-54169854279264404832010-05-26T17:37:17.936-04:002010-05-26T17:37:17.936-04:00That's just like my [unnamed relative] who was...That's just like my [unnamed relative] who was complaining because she had to do "90% of everything around the house." I looked at her and said, "You're lucky. I do 100% of the crap around my house." It is very difficult to be the only one there to look after all the things that need to be done. No matter what the chore, errand, or responsibility, I'm the only one TOWRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01793365147574634180noreply@blogger.com